ALSO - calling to "catch up" is so *barf*.... you know what's sexy? Writing LETTERS. If your friend has a lot to say and maybe you don't, they can write it all out to you. You can read it at your leisure, and then you can reply WHEN you want to and how succinctly or elaborately you prefer. Letters were the original Marco Polo (another great option for that friend that insists on catching up). I started handwriting letters again last year and it's also very comforting to pick out stickers you like, spray it with perfume, etc etc.... highly recommend.
Fact: I literally stopped an entire friendship with someone because she insisted on weekly phone calls just to catch up. So that's always an option too.
best comfort youtubers for me (as a reader, writer, fangirl and a teen) Steph Bohrer, Caricanread, Kate Leski, Natalie Etched, Withcindy, yourinternetmomash, dylan is in trouble, nicole rafiee is great for more essay podcasty type,
ALSO - calling to "catch up" is so *barf*.... you know what's sexy? Writing LETTERS. If your friend has a lot to say and maybe you don't, they can write it all out to you. You can read it at your leisure, and then you can reply WHEN you want to and how succinctly or elaborately you prefer. Letters were the original Marco Polo (another great option for that friend that insists on catching up). I started handwriting letters again last year and it's also very comforting to pick out stickers you like, spray it with perfume, etc etc.... highly recommend.
Fact: I literally stopped an entire friendship with someone because she insisted on weekly phone calls just to catch up. So that's always an option too.
I love this idea! Maybe they will also realize that they talk about the exact same thing every single time? Wishful thinking 😂
We can only hope!! But, how interesting that would be more obvious through writing than by speech!
My thoughts exactly! 🔗
I adore this video. Warning: ULTRA cozy content https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dUwV1LdWWIA
Oh i am so looking forward to watching this!!!
best comfort youtubers for me (as a reader, writer, fangirl and a teen) Steph Bohrer, Caricanread, Kate Leski, Natalie Etched, Withcindy, yourinternetmomash, dylan is in trouble, nicole rafiee is great for more essay podcasty type,
thank you so much for sharing!
YOUTUBE IS SO IN!! Some of my fav comfy YouTubers are Faline San and olioverr!!
ty for sharing! Adding to my list 🤍